Sexual Education at its best - Learn Conscious Touch, Tantra Massage & Tantric Sex in this online course of 4 fun evenings. In your own home and at your own pace.

▶ Watch Trailer


'The essence of tantra is bringing consciousness to your sexual practice so it doesn’t become a means to an end but you become totally present with feelings as they arise.'


Get an idea of this Tantric Date Nights online course that gives you 10 hours of inspiration


Each of the four Date Nights has a duration of around 2,5 hours. The course is designed to last eight weeks so we advise to plan a Date Night every two weeks, but of course you are free to set your own pace.

  • 4 Breathing Exercises intense and effective to open and connect you (1 hr total)
  • 8 Conscious Touch Exercises resensitize your body in a daring and exciting way (5 hrs total)
  • 4 Tantra Massages just follow the hands on screen to become a massage pro (2 hrs total)
  • 12 Tips for Tantric Sex hands-on so you can start practicing together right away (1 hr total)
  • 4 Sexperiments demonstrations that will inspire you to Sexplore together (1 hr total)
  • Lots of Scientific Fun Facts to explain scientifically what happens in your body
  • Theory & Examples your advanced instructor Yves will guide you through all exercises


  • Have the tools and skills you need to transform your sexlife
  • Know how to include your whole body (and not only your genitals) into your sexual play
  • Have opened the gateway to more fulfilling orgasmic states that will make ejaculation and the clitoral orgasm feel more like a genital sneeze
  • Know how to express your desires and boundaries to your partner
  • Know how to be vulnerable with your partner in the bedroom (super aphrodisiac!)
  • Know how to use breath, relaxation and many other tools to prolong your lovemaking
  • Understand how to control your ejaculation
  • Know how to skillfully massage your partner with more than just your hands
  • Understand how to create a strong polarity between you and your partner
  • Understand the importance of playfulness and not taking it all too seriously

'We had to admit: sex had become boring and repetitive. We both wanted to do something about that but were shy. A friend advised this Online Course and we had so much fun. We even booked a hotel room for one of the Dates! Simple hand-ons tips and deep insights, it's all in there and made huge improvements inside and outside the bedroom. The massages are easy to follow and my girl says I massage like a pro now.'

- Joanne & Guus (The Netherlands) - together for 4 years, were in testpanel of the course



Conscious sexuality is a skill that can be learned, cultivated, practiced and deepened. It's more than just short-lived pleasures, friction and routine. But who teaches us the art of great sex? It’s quite common to take lessons to learn how to play the piano. It’s also normal to take surf lessons to learn how to ride the waves. But where to go when you want to learn how to move your hands along your partner’s body?

Not school...

Let’s be honest. Sexual education in school is virtually non-existent. In biology you learn how to reproduce and maybe prevent pregnancy, and that is pretty much it. No one is teaching us about our orgasmic potential and pleasure in our bodies. At school they don't tell us how to say full YES to your desires and also a full NO when stating your boundaries, although this is extremely important because it can prevent a lot of issues. If school isn't teaching us, then where to go?

Not porn...

Porn shows us what people fantasize about and often provides not much more than a 'quick release' after which we might feel relaxed but also depleted. Most of the time you see just two (or more...) people having 'rabbit style' sex without being present in a more emotional connection. Porn doesn’t teach us anything about how to restore passion, create a strong chemistry, re-sensitize our senses, fully tune in to each other, and explore different kinds of orgasms.

Seldom our parents...

If we are lucky, our parents had an open mindset towards sex and sexuality, but even if this was the case, chances are that they also never had anyone teach them how look at each other, touch and feel into each other, and reach orgasmic states.

The solution: Follow our online course in your own home & at your own pace

Ultimate Lovers online tantric courses will bring you all the sexual wisdom you missed at school, in porn and from your parents. Of course you can also go to a tantra workshop, but not everyone is ready to go to tantra or intimacy workshops to learn about a delicate subject like sex. For many people these kinds of workshops are either too intimidating, too expensive, or too difficult to plan. Ultimate Lovers online courses are designed for people who want to learn the art of great sex in the comfort of their own homes and at their own pace.

'We definitely had our struggles. But wow, the Tantric Date Nights made us feel like we just got married again, but with an amazing upgrade in the bedroom. Simple steps, good theory, amazing demonstrations. We were joking that this course is a lot cheaper and a lot more for than a divorce lawyer :). Would definitely recommend this course.'

- Bill & Tracey, (USA) - married for 11 years and were in test panel of the course


Coaching in the bedroom

Hi, I’m Yves and I have been a sex educator for years. I have coached women and couples on their path to becoming better lovers and creating a better sex life. I have practiced my sexual skills for thousands of hours. I am not like a sex therapist who only offers counseling for the bedroom, I actually go into that bedroom with them, where I am able to observe, explain, demonstrate and participate directly.

From lawyer to gigolo

Making the change from being a lawyer to being a tantric gigolo has completely transformed my life. As a lawyer, I felt that I was missing embodiment and depth, due to being stuck in my head all day. Now, I feel much more present, energy and am alive in my body. My relationship with my friends, family and most importantly myself has dramatically changed for the better.

What I have learned I put into this course

During the couple sessions it became clear to me that, even though everyone had his or her own unique story, many couples struggle with the same issues when they try to restore the chemistry in their love life. The things that we long for in the bedroom from our partner and also from ourselves are not that different from one another. In my sessions I developed and tested different exercises to help the couples reconnect with each other, re-sensitize their bodies, become vulnerable with each other, and transform their sex life. I have put the best exercises in this course, together with the help of the Ultimate Lovers team.

Reaching more bedrooms

People often confide in me and tell me they feel like something is missing in their sex life. They ask me what to do about sex that has become dull, disconnected, repetitive and unsatisfying. After years of doing sessions, I came to the realisation that I would reach more people through online courses and explain step by step what you can do to bring chemistry and pleasure back into the bedroom.

'We wanted to learn more about Tantra & Tantric Massage and found some classes but we didn't want to do this in a group. We wanted the privacy and feeling of safety of our own home. Then we found these Date Nights online. Our goal was massage and yes we learned them with clear instructions and filmed on a beautiful location! Next to the massages it were the fun Tantra exercises gave us the deep insights.'

Dilip & Leela (India) - married for 18 years, were in test panel of the course