TANTRIC DATE NIGHTS

Sexual Education at its best - Learn Conscious Touch, Tantra Massage & Tantric Sex in this online course of 4 fun evenings. In your own home and at your own pace.



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Eckhart Tolle about Tantra

'The essence of tantra is bringing consciousness to your sexual practice so it doesn’t become a means to an end but you become totally present with the feeling as they arise.'

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to give you an impression of what to expect during 4 Tantric Date Nights


Are you...

  • Missing chemistry and passion in the bedroom?
  • Too tired or stressed-out for lovemaking?
  • Numb in your body and stuck in your head?
  • Experiencing tension or pain during sexual play?
  • Insecure about how to give your partner what he/she craves?
  • Wondering why something that crucially important as sex can feel so empty?
  • Feeling low in sexual energy and depleted after orgasm?
  • Tired of having to guess what your partner wants?
  • Afraid to tell your partner your desires?
  • Having a hard time indicating your boundaries?
  • Curious to learn about Tantra but afraid to attend a workshop?

YOU WILL GET 10 HOURS OF COURSE MATERIAL

The course is designed to last 8 weeks, but you are free to set your own pace

  • 4 Breathing Exercises intense and effective to open and connect you (1 hr total)
  • 8 Tantra Exercises learn conscious touch in a daring and exiting way (5 hrs total)
  • 4 Tantra Massages just follow the hands on screen to become a massage pro (2 hrs total)
  • 12 Tips for Tantric Sex hands-on so you can start practicing together right away (1 hr total)
  • 4 Sexperiments demonstrations that will inspire you to Sexplore together (1 hr total)
  • a lot of Scientific Fun Facts to explain scientifically what happens in your body
  • Theory & Examples your advanced instructor will guide you through all exercises
  • Bonus How to set up your Date Space - 10 simple tips to create a great space for your date nights

After this online course you will...

  • Have the tools and skills you need to transform your sexlife
  • Know how to include your whole body (and not only your genitals) into your sexual play
  • Have opened the gateway to more fulfilling orgasmic states that will make ejaculation and the clitoral orgasm feel more like a genital sneeze
  • Know how to express your desires and boundaries to your partner
  • Know how to be vulnerable with your partner in the bedroom (super aphrodisiac!)
  • Know how to use breath, relaxation and many other tools to prolong your lovemaking
  • Understand how to control your ejaculation
  • Know how to skillfully massage your partner with more than just your hands
  • Understand how to create a strong polarity between you and your partner
  • Understand the importance of playfulness and not taking it all too seriously
 

Who teaches you the art of sex?

Great sex is a skill that can be learned, cultivated, practiced and deepened. Conscious sexuality is about more than just short-lived pleasures, friction and routine. This course will teach you how to transform the whole body into one giant orgasmic cock or pussy.

It’s quite common to take piano lessons to learn how to play the scales. It’s also normal to take surf lessons to learn how to ride the waves. But where do you learn the art of great sex? Who actually teaches you how to move your hands along your partner’s body? Where do you learn to increase your horniness AND hold on to it?.


Not at school...

Let’s be honest. Sexual education on school is virtually non-existent. In biology you learn how to reproduce, and that is pretty much it. No one is teaching you the art of great sex, tells you what is really possible when you learn about this most important social way of communicating we humans we have to our disposal.


Not from porn...

Porn shows us what people fantasize about and often provides not much more than a 'quick fix'. It doesn’t teach us anything about how to restore passion, create a strong chemistry, resensitize our senses, fully tune in to each other, and explore different kinds of orgasms.have incredible sex.


Seldom from our parents...

If we are lucky, our parents had an open mindset towards sex and sexuality, but even if this was the case, chances are still that they themselves never had anyone either that taught them the intricate art of great sex.


'We had to admit: sex had become boring and repetitive. We both wanted to do something about that but were shy. A friend advised this Online Course and we had so much fun. We even booked a hotel room for one of the Dates! Simple hand-ons tips and deep insights, it's all in there and made huge improvements inside and outside the bedroom. The massages are easy to follow and my girl says I massage like a pro now.'

- Joanne & Guus (The Netherlands) - together for 4 years, were in testpanel of the course

WHAT IS ULTIMATE LOVERS DATE NIGHTS ABOUT?


Ultimate Lovers’ Date Nights is an online course that will provide you with the tools you need to expand your toolbox and restore passion, pleasure and polarity to your sex life. You will learn about conscious touch, tantric massage and tantric sex.

Great sex is a skill that can be learned, cultivated, practiced and deepened. Conscious sexuality is about more than just short-lived pleasures, friction and routine. It goes beyond the physical, and it penetrates our very core. This first course will take away the focus from the genitals so you can learn how to transform the whole body into one giant orgasmic cock or pussy.


WHY WOULD I WANT TO DO THIS EXACTLY?

Many people think that sex is something you do, not something you learn. But no one is born a great lover. Let’s be honest. Sexual education on school is virtually non-existent. In biology you learn how to reproduce, and that is pretty much it. No one is teaching you the art of great sex, tells you what is really possible when you learn about this most important social way of communicating we humans we have to our disposal. Porn shows us what people fantasize about, but doesn’t teach us anything about how to restore passion, create a strong chemistry, resensitize our senses, fully tune in to each other, and have incredible sex.

If we are lucky, our parents had an open mindset towards sex and sexuality, but even if this was the case, chances are still that they themselves never had anyone either that taught them the intricate art of great sex.

My profession as a Sex Educator always leads to interesting conversations, people often ask:

‘Our sex life is so boring after all these years, it has become repetitive and predictable, what should we do?’

‘My partner has no idea what I really want in bed and I don’t know how to tell him, what do you think?’

‘I heard that full body orgasms exist, is that true?’

Sex doesn’t have to be dull, disconnected and unsatisfying. Even after many years with your partner, sex can still be fun, intimate and exciting.

And no, your partner can’t guess exactly what you want. That’s why you’ll have to learn how to recognise and express your longings. And yes, full body orgasms absolutely do exist! I have guided many women AND men in discovering all kinds of orgasms - from womb orgasms to valley orgasms, and from G-spot orgasms to full body orgasms.

It’s quite common to take piano lessons to learn how to play the scales. It’s also normal to take surf lessons to learn how to ride the waves. But where do you learn the art of great sex? Who actually teaches you how to move your hands along your partner’s body? Where do you learn to increase your horniness AND hold on to it? Not at school, not usually from your parents, and certainly not from the online fast food porn that you can see within two mouse clicks.

To learn the art of great sex, you will have to unlearn a lot - like for example the hasty sex with eyes closed and muscles tensed, all leading to one small peak. Many people are very disconnected and disembodied from their sexuality, which means they are not present and not feeling their bodies fully during sex. Most people are either thinking too much or only focusing on their genitals. They spend the majority of the time rubbing against each others genitals with their eyes closed, fantasising about something else, and ending prematurely in a genital sneeze.

I want to teach you how to experience great sex as it is meant to be. That’s why I created a course that is designed to reinvigorate any relationship.

Sounds great right? And that's just the beginning.

Hundreds of books have been written about sex, but people often lack the patience and interest to read them. There are many Tantric workshops on offer, but people often find them too intimidating or expensive. There are many tips and tricks on the internet, but trawling through them to find legitimate advice is confusing and frustrating. If you want to experience great sex and deep intimacy, it will take more than just simple tricks.

That’s why we have created an online course that is deep, exciting, and can be done in the comfort of your own home and at your own pace.

Conscious Touch, Tantric Massage and Tantric Sex are skills that can be learned and practiced.

MEET YOUR INSTRUCTOR

Coaching in the bedroom

Hi, I’m Yves and I have been a sex educator for years. I have coached women and couples on their path to becoming better lovers and creating a better sex life. I have practiced my sexual skills for thousands of hours. I am not like a sex therapist who only offers counseling for the bedroom, I actually go into that bedroom with them, where I am able to observe, explain, demonstrate and participate directly.

From lawyer to gigolo

Making the change from being a lawyer to being a tantric gigolo has completely transformed my life. As a lawyer, I felt that I was missing embodiment and depth, due to being stuck in my head all day. Now, I feel much more present, energy and aliveness in my body. My relationship with my friends, family and most importantly myself has dramatically changed for the better.

What I have learned I put in this course

During the couple sessions it became clear to me that, even though everyone had his or her own unique story, many couples struggle with the same issues when they try to restore the chemistry in their love life. The things that we long for in the bedroom from our partner and also from ourselves are not that different from one another. In my sessions I developed and tested different exercises to help the couples reconnect with each other, resensitize their bodies, become vulnerable with each other, and transform their sex life. I have put the best exercises in this course, together with the help of the Ultimate Lovers team.

Reaching more bedrooms

People often confide in me and tell me they feel like something is missing in their sex life. They ask me what to do about sex that has become dull, disconnected, repetitive and unsatisfying. After years of doing sessions, I came to the realisation that I would reach more people through online courses and explain step by step what you can do to bring chemistry and pleasure back into the bedroom.'


'We definitely had our struggles. But Wow, the Tantric Date Nights made us feel like we just got married again, but with an amazing upgrade in the bedroom. Simple steps, good theory, amazing demonstrations. We were joking that this course is a lot cheaper and a lot more for than a divorce lawyer :). Would definitely recommend this course.'

- Bill & Tracey, (USA) - married for 11 years and were in testpanel of the course

WHY SHOULD I DO THIS COURSE?

  • If you want to learn how to create a deep connection and enjoy great sex with your partner
  • If you are interested in the sexual practices of tantra, but don’t want to go to scary workshops, or read books about it.
  • If you want to start explore tantra or deepen your experience with tantra.
  • If you have a busy life and want to decide yourself when and where you do these exercises.
  • If you can’t tell the difference anymore of what is useful and correct information, or absolute nonsense, because of all the contradicting sources around sex, from internet and social media to what your friends are telling you.

This is a first course in a series of three, in which we will teach and show you everything you need to know and work on to become an ultimate lover. Nowadays most people are overly focused on their genitals during sex. They are disconnected from the rest of their bodies and desensitized through factors as internet porn and the stresses of modern life. That is why in this first course we will take the focus away from the genitals so you can learn how to transform the whole body into one giant orgasmic cock or pussy.

We will take you as a couple on a Tantric Sexploration of 4 Date Nights of around 2,5 hours each. Ultimate Lovers will provide you with the tools you need to expand your toolbox and restore passion, pleasure and polarity to your sex life. Each Date night contains easy-to-follow instructional videos.

Read more about Ultimate Lovers Essentials here.

Take a look at the full curriculum of the course here.

'We wanted to learn more about Tantra & Tantric Massage and found some classes but we didn't want to do this in a group. We wanted the privacy and feeling of safety of our own home. Then we found these Date Nights online. Our goal was massage and yes we learned them with clear instructions and filmed on a beautiful location! Next to the massages it were the fun Tantra exercises gave us the deep insights. We only now see we did so much assumptions in what the other desires.'

Dilip & Leela (India) - married for 18 years, were in testpanel of the course