Many guys ask me how I mastered my ejaculation during sex, so I decided to make a video about it. I'll discuss why you would want to do this in the first place. What exactly are the benefits, for both you and your partner? It is not just about being able to have longer sex, for instance.

Often, women need more time to really get turned on. If you ejaculate within twenty or thirty minutes of having sex, her body is only getting started. Another reason is that, if you would like to ready yourself for different kinds of orgasms and orgasmic states, both you, but also your woman (there is a whole plethora of female orgasms to experience next to the clitoral one) will need to learn to bypass the short lived, addictive peak orgasm, that is characterized by a few strong contractions. Both men and women can become multi-orgasmic if they are willing to put in the practice.

In this video I’ll give you 7 tried and tested tips how to control your ejaculation.

If you want to get better in ejaculation control and improve your stamina in the bedroom, you may want to read the blog series "Expand your pleasure: How men can delay their orgasm".