Let’s look at an animation on how your breathing affects the flow of sexual energy in your body.

The way you breathe affects how sexual energy flows through your body. Short shallow breaths results in sexual tension building up too quickly. Together with too much muscle tension at the same time the sexual tension gets excessive, and you will release it through a peak orgasm. By peak orgasm, I mean ejaculation or clitoral orgasm.

Learn to breathe slowly and deeply to circulate the energy through your bodies, instead of releasing it through the genitals too quickly. Try to relax your muscles as much as possible. In particular, relax your neck and jaw muscles. Relax your belly muscles. Relax your leg muscles as much as you can.