Men - during sex, forget about your cock and focus on touching your partner. The more you focus on your cock, the quicker you will come. Remind yourself that women’s bodies need a lot more time to warm up.

Ultimate Lovers tips:

  • Have coconut oil handy, so you can massage your partner during intercourse. Remember that energy goes where attention flows. Spreading the sexual energy through both of your bodies will stop it peaking in the genitals, thus making it easier for you to not come too quickly.
  • If your cock is inside her, visualise and feel that you are penetrating her whole body. Imagine your masculine energy is penetrating her pussy, and going up to her heart, and all the way up to the head.