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How to take a break to save yourself from ejaculation

The easiest trick in the book to save your mojo and not blast away the sexual tension by cumming, is by taking a break during sex. The more you practice this, the easier it will be to identify when you need a break. When you start on this path of becoming an ultimate lover, take a break when you...

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Get ready for some great sex: deep belly breathing!

Most people aren’t really aware of how they breathe during sex. If you want to be able to have sex for prolonged periods of time, you need to become more aware of your breathing patterns while having sex. This is especially important for men, as they will have a peak orgasm much...

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Focus on her body, but don't lose yourself

5 [This blog is part of the Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm blog series. Check out the first article about how to delay your orgasm.] During sex you want to enjoy the feeling of your lovers naked body against yours. You want to taste her lips kissing you,...

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Why taking a break is sometimes crucial during sex

4 [This blog is part of the Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm blog series. Check out the first article about how to delay your orgasm.] The easiest trick in the book to save your mojo and not blast away the sexual tension by cumming, is by taking a break during sex. The...

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Relax your muscles for prolonging and deepening sex

3 [This blog is part of the Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm blog series. Check out the first article about how to delay your orgasm.] Apart from breathing deeply and slowly, try to consciously relax the muscles in your body as much as possible during sex. This will make...

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Train yourself to breathe deeply and slowly

2 [This blog is part of the Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm blog series. Check out the first article about how to delay your orgasm.] The way you breathe has a great impact on how the sexual energy flows through your body. By breathing shallow and/or quickly, you build...

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Expand your pleasure: How men can delay their orgasm

1 [This blog is part 1 of the "Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm" blog series.] The 5 minute disaster On average, the act of having sex takes about 5 minutes. This may be enough for both of you to have a quick orgasm, but it is not nearly enough to bring any woman into...

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How to touch and play with the pussy.

In this short video clip, my good friend Daphne gives a few tips on how to touch and play with the pussy. A lot of women have physical and emotional blockages in their pelvic floor. You can help your partner to open up their pelvic floor through internal touch, but you have to be gentle. When...

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