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Focus on her body, but don't lose yourself

[This blog is part of the "Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm" blog series. If you want to start with the first blog, click here.] During sex you want to enjoy the feeling of your lovers naked body against yours. You want to taste her lips kissing you, smell her...

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Why taking a break is sometimes crucial during sex

[This blog is part of the Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm blog series. If you want to start with the first blog, click here.] The easiest trick in the book to save your mojo and not blast away the sexual tension by cumming, is by taking a break during sex. The more you...

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Relax your muscles for prolonging and deepening sex

[This blog is part of the Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm blog series. If you want to start with the first blog, click here.] Apart from breathing deeply and slowly, try to consciously relax the muscles in your body as much as possible during sex. This will make it easier to...

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Train yourself to breathe deeply and slowly

[This blog is part of the Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm blog series. If you want to start with the first blog, click here.] The way you breathe has a great impact on how the sexual energy flows through your body. By breathing shallow and/or quickly, you build up the sexual...

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Expand your pleasure: How men can delay their orgasm

The 5 minute disaster On average, the act of having sex takes about 5 minutes. This may be enough for both of you to have a quick orgasm, but it is not nearly enough to bring any woman into sexual ecstasy. If you want to experience great sex and mind-blowing orgasms, you will have to work on...

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How to touch and play with the pussy.

In this short video clip, my good friend Daphne gives a few tips on how to touch and play with the pussy. A lot of women have physical and emotional blockages in their pelvic floor. You can help your partner to open up their pelvic floor through internal touch, but you have to be gentle. When...

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