The Ultimate Lovers Blog

Sex mechanics and dynamics • Sexual education • Intimacy and connection

Expand your pleasure: How men can delay their orgasm

1. This blog is part 1 of the "Expand your Pleasure: how men can delay their orgasm" blog series. The 5 minute disaster On average, the act of having sex takes about 5 minutes. This may be enough for both of you to have a quick orgasm, but it is not nearly enough to bring any woman into...


How to touch and play with the pussy.

In this short video clip, my good friend Daphne gives a few tips on how to touch and play with the pussy. A lot of women have physical and emotional blockages in their pelvic floor. You can help your partner to open up their pelvic floor through internal touch, but you have to be gentle. When...