Tantric Date Nights

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During these Date Nights you will learn:

  • Reach new levels of passion and intimacy through date nights of deep sexual exploration
  • Unlock your orgasmic potential and experience full body orgasms
  • Create a deeper emotional and sexual connection with your partner
  • Build more chemistry in your relationship, both inside and outside the bedroom
  • Integrate this sexual exploration in your love life through personalised online coaching sessions

"It felt like our own private workshop"

Doing the date night’s exercises and sharings with each other helped bring a depth of connection to our sexual play that we hadn’t experienced before. We never realised just how passionate we could look at each other. Or how much energy we could move through the other’s body with just our hands alone. Yves showed us how we could connect with each other by not only using our hands and bodies, but also our breath. This not only made our bodies much more sensitive. It also fired up our desires big time!

We would say that Tantric Date Nights should be the starter kit for everyone who longs for a deep sexual and sensual connection with their partner.

Yves’ explanations, as well as the beautiful demonstrations of the exercises, massages and tantric experiments, were very inspiring. It felt like we had our own private workshop where everything was slowed down and talked about in a way that made it safe to share whilst also being sexy and fun.

Thank you Yves!

- Santa & James, London, United Kingdom

Course Curriculum

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Ultimate Lovers will take you as a couple on 4 Tantric Date Nights for around 2,5 hours each. Each Date night contains easy-to-follow instructional videos which teach you lots of new skills while having fun. All the hours full of easy to follow massages, playful exercises, scientific fun facts and lots of tips & tricks will definitely ignite a fire between you.


We will show you how to get ready for each date night. We start by creating a sexy space.

We’ll show you how to use lighting, music and food to create a full sensual experience.

Then we will show you how to get in the mood on the days leading up to the date night.

START WITH BREATHING (a key element of amazing lovemaking)

You will learn how to use powerful breathing exercises along with especially created breathwork music to relax and energize your body.


You will learn new, playful and exciting ways to connect deeply with each other, by using touch, sound, sight and movement.

You will learn how to guide and to follow, so you can improve your sexual dance.

We will teach you how to act upon your desires by using your partner's body, or parts of it, with their consent of course.

We will also teach you how to express your desires and ask for exactly what you want.

Furthermore, in order to find out what you really want in the bedroom, you have to be able to recognise and express what you DON’T want. It is important to know your limits and to set boundaries.


And in order to keep things from getting too serious, we will provide you with fun and light exercises to reset yourselves in between all the main practices.

In this course, we will be working intensively with your bodies, you will learn everything you need to learn through bodily imprints. To be embodied means to be fully present in your body during sex. It’s about feeling your body fully and connecting with your senses, instead of being stuck in your head or your genitals. In order to improve embodied awareness, and to learn from and understand each other, you will need to learn how to share your experience with each other. We will guide you through this sharing process.


In order to become an ultimate lover and learn how to tune in to both yourself and your partner, you will need to resensitise your touch and your body, so you can become fully feeling from head to toe.

Working on your sensual touch - and this doesn’t necessarily mean soft - is probably the most important element of this first course. Most people have limited understanding and experience of how to touch another person in a way that opens up the body and raises the sexual energy. To help you with this, I have included a beautiful massage in every date night.

You can follow exactly what we do and try these out on each other. These massages are a fantastic way to spread sexual energy over the whole body.


At the end of each Date Night we will invite you to continue playing together, leaving you with tried and tested tips.

Join us on this journey through the heart, the mind, the body and the senses. We will show you how to unlock your true potential as a sexual being and how to take your sexual play to levels it’s never reached before.


Before every exercise, your instructor Yves will explain you the goal and relevance of the exercise with theoretical background. We also added animations to show you what happens in your body on a scientific level as well as energetic level during the different exercises.

"We had the best connection ever after the course, and that after 18 year relationship"

We have been together for 18 years. Before we did this course we got a bit stuck between the sheets, but this course really helped. We had some really good experiences during the course. We even had to stop a video halfway a date night because we had so much fun to have the best sexy encounter we ever had:)

It was helpful to learn taking the time, not rushing, breathing together. Putting music on, preparing. Massaging each other. The course has helped us explore what we each like and to understand what the other likes and to communicate about that.

The Date Nights are really well presented. Very straight but thoughtful. The exercises are powerful. The videos hold a space to explore and have fun. Easy to follow and easy to enjoy.

-Lyndall & Rich, Adelaide, Australia

"A great online place for a kickstart of a new intimate connection, or for re-ignition of an existing one"

Yves and his team did such a great job creating this course! 
I followed Yves’ evolution from up-close. He really succeeded in integrating the best practices from different fields of intimate work.

 The course offers a rich set of tools for couples who want to deepen their connection. With a pinch of tantra, breath-work, touch exploration, play, massage and reflective exercises.

A great online place for a kickstart of a new intimate connection, or for re-ignition of an existing one.
 These four dates are fun, accessible, rich, explorative, sensual and connective. And you can do them at home in your own pace. A great thing to do if you’re not up for live workshops but want to move forward with your connection.

Did I mention the beautiful sensual surroundings and video material? A joy to watch real people sharing intimacy.
 Well done Ultimate Lovers!

-Annemarie Reilingh, Amsterdam, The Netherlands

Pelvic Therapist & Pleasure Advocate, www.pelvicawakening.com

"It helped us connect in softness with each other"

We had a very relaxing evening! We find it difficult at times to schedule connection time with each other, as we both have busy lives. But after watching your welcome video, I really got in the mood for the date nights. I loved preparing the play space! The demonstrations, set in tropical surroundings, are stunning. Following the clear instructions and doing the exercises really helped us stepping out of our normal patterns. I have never given a guided massage before, and I really enjoyed doing it. And my boyfriend loved receiving it 😉. The date nights’ structure really helped us connect in softness with each other.

- Cindy, Rotterdam, the Netherlands

"Very deep wisdom that is desperately needed"

I have received some very helpful imprints from Yves on how I can improve my sex life. In my opinion, Ultimate Lovers offers more that just sex education tools. In fact, it shows some very deep wisdom and not only that, it is new, innovative and desperately needed in these modern times, where many people are confused about their role as lover.

Around 7 years ago, I started my journey from unsatisfying sex, trying to do it right and aiming to please my partner, to the deep and fulfilling sex I experience now. And I would never have guessed beforehand that the ingredients to this profound change would be the ones that Yves is now willing to share with us.

- Edgar, Amsterdam, The Netherlands

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Frequently Asked Questions

When does the course start and finish?
The course starts as soon as you subscribed! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish. Yes, we build it for 4 nights and advice to do 1 evening every 1 or 2 weeks, but you are free to choose your own pace.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 15 days and we will give you a full refund.