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Welcome to the first night of your Four Tantric Date Nights Online Course. Yves and Ester will demonstrate and teach you all about conscious touch, tantric massage and tantric lovemaking. We will guide you through sensual demonstrations, daring exercises, and lots of inspirational tips and tricks.
This first Date Night will be a fun night at home full of erotic discovery moments, where we will share dozens of sexual secrets with you. For example: did you realise that many couples, whether they have been together 10 months or 10 years, develop the same routine and dynamic in the bedroom? Over time passion in the bedroom can become boring and lackluster. In this Date Night, you will learn how to stop the monotony and start bringing passionate chemistry back into your love life.
PreviewWELCOME • Preview of Date Night 1 (5:03)
StartBREATHING EXERCISE • Heart Breathing (26:30)
StartTOUCH EXERCISE • Awaken the Hands (17:20)
StartRESET EXERCISE • to Laugh and Have Fun (4:08)
StartTOUCH EXERCISE • Dancing Hands (15:46)
StartSHARING • About 2 Touch Exercises (8:58)
StartMASSAGE EXERCISE • Hand, Face and Head (44:08)
StartSEXPERIMENT • 4 Practical Tips for Tantric Lovemaking (8:07)
"It helped us connect in softness with each other"
"We had a very relaxing evening! We find it difficult at times to schedule connection time with each other, as we both have busy lives. But after watching your welcome video, I really got in the mood for the date nights. I loved preparing the play space! The demonstrations, set in tropical surroundings, are stunning. Following the clear instructions and doing the exercises really helped us stepping out of our normal patterns. I have never given a guided massage before, and I really enjoyed doing it. And my boyfriend loved receiving it 😉. The date nights’ structure really helped us connect in softness with each other."
- Cindy, Rotterdam, the Netherlands
WHAT YOU WILL LEARN DURING THIS DATE NIGHT
✓ Learn how to use eye contact, touch and breathing to relax and energise your body and connect with your partner
✓ Learn how to touch and resensitize yourself
✓ Explore the dynamics of leading and following to create attraction
✓ Learn to give a sensual hand, face, head massage
✓ Learn these essentials of Tantric Lovemaking:
- How to circulate your energy and prolong your lovemaking
- The importance of slowing down
- The impact of compliments
- Breaking the 'rabbit habit' in the bedroom
WHAT WILL YOUR EVENING LOOK LIKE IN DETAIL?
START WITH PREPARING YOUR DATE NIGHT
We will show you how to get ready for Date Night 1. We start by creating a sexy space.
We will explain how to use lighting, music and food to create a full sensual experience.
Then we will give you some tips and inspiration on how to get in the mood on the days leading up to the date night.
WE KICK OFF THIS DATE NIGHT WITH A SENSUAL BREATHING EXERCISE
This breathing exercise will combine the power of breath work, eye gazing, touch and music. The goal is to relax, energise and align your bodies. This first exercise will help you and your partner to establish a deep connection between the two of you.
We will explain with the help of animations how your breathing affects the flow of sexual energy through both your bodies, and why prolonged eye contact makes people feel in love.
THEORETICAL BACKGROUND & SCIENTIFIC FUN FACTS
Before every exercise, your instructor Yves will explain the goal and relevance of the exercise with theoretical background. We have also included animations to show exactly what happens in your body on a scientific as well as energetic level during the different exercises.
THE SECRETS OF HOW TO TOUCH YOUR PARTNER
In this exercise you will learn how to touch your partner in a soft and consensual way, just for your own pleasure. If you are like most people, you will find this is much harder to do than it sounds.
We will also explain the different ways in which you can experience pleasure and how you can rewire your brain and recondition yourself to experience more pleasure.
LEARN HOW TO CREATE CHEMISTRY
After this, we have created a playful exercise for you, in which both of you will have active yet opposing roles. One of you will lead the exercise and the other will follow. Sexual attraction is based on polarity between two opposing energies.
In tantra, we often speak about the masculine and the feminine energies. Both of these roles are equally important. This playful exercise will allow you to play with both your masculine and feminine sides.
It’s important to cultivate your natural side, but by getting in touch with both sides, you not only deepen the sex, but will also be more able to relate to challenges your partner may face at times.
RESETS AND SHARINGS BETWEEN EXERCISES
In order to keep things from getting too serious, we provide fun and light exercises to reset in between all the main practices.
In the Tantric Date Nights, you will be working intensively with your bodies. You will learn everything you need to learn through bodily imprints. To be embodied means to be fully present in your body during sex. It’s about feeling your body fully and connecting with your senses, instead of being stuck in your head or your genitals.
In order to improve embodied awareness, and to learn from and understand each other, you will need to learn how to share your experience with each other. In this date night, we will guide you through this sharing process.
GIVE YOUR PARTNER A BEAUTIFUL MASSAGE
After the guiding and following exercise, it is time for a beautiful massage. We demonstrate the massage and give detailed instructions at the same time. All you have to do is watch and copy Ester’s moves as she works on Yves’ body.
In this massage, we will focus on the head, face and the hands. Hands are often overlooked, despite having more nerve endings than our genitals. We will also work on the head, chest and abdominal area.
As part of Tantric Date Nights, this first massage is intended for the woman to give to the man, but of course you can switch sides so you can both receive this very relaxing massage.
ICING ON THE CAKE - 3 TIPS FOR TANTRIC LOVEMAKING AND A SEXPERIMENT
At the end of this date night, we encourage you to stay connected and continue playing with each other. After all the beautiful work you’ve done over the past couple of hours, you may now take full advantage of how sensitive your touch and body feels.
Before we say goodbye, we will leave you with three tried and tested tips (including demo's) and one fun sexperiment for you to try in your sexual play.
Join us on this erotic exploration through the heart, the mind, the body and the senses. We will show you how to unlock your true potential as a sexual being and how to take your sexual play to levels it’s never reached before.
"It felt like our own private workshop"
Doing the date night’s exercises and sharings with each other helped bring a depth of connection to our sexual play that we hadn’t experienced before. We never realised just how passionate we could look at each other. Or how much energy we could move through the other’s body with just our hands alone. Yves showed us how we could connect with each other by not only using our hands and bodies, but also our breath. This not only made our bodies much more sensitive. It also fired up our desires big time!
We would say that Tantric Date Nights should be the starter kit for everyone who longs for a deep sexual and sensual connection with their partner.
Yves’ explanations, as well as the beautiful demonstrations of the exercises, massages and tantric experiments, were very inspiring. It felt like we had our own private workshop where everything was slowed down and talked about in a way that made it safe to share whilst also being sexy and fun.
Thank you Yves!
- Santa and James, London, United Kingdom
"A great online place for a kickstart of a new intimate connection, or for re-ignition of an existing one"
Yves and his team did such a great job creating this course! I followed Yves’ evolution from up-close. He really succeeded in integrating the best practices from different fields of intimate work.
The course offers a rich set of tools for couples who want to deepen their connection. With a pinch of tantra, breath-work, touch exploration, play, massage and reflective exercises.
A great online place for a kickstart of a new intimate connection, or for re-ignition of an existing one. These four dates are fun, accessible, rich, explorative, sensual and connective. And you can do them at home in your own pace. A great thing to do if you’re not up for live workshops but want to move forward with your connection.
Did I mention the beautiful sensual surroundings and video material? A joy to watch real people sharing intimacy. Well done Ultimate Lovers!
-Annemarie Reilingh, Amsterdam, The Netherlands
Pelvic Therapist & Pleasure Advocate, www.pelvicawakening.com